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Hi, my name is Nelle

Hi, my name is Nelle

I’m Nelle I’m a mental health enthusiast, a free spirit, a travel lover, and have a deep love for SciFi. I started this blog a couple of years ago to share my journey of self-love and discovery. Because there was no one on the net sharing how difficult and hard this journey was. And girl this journey is not easy.

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I almost forgot the mission. ⁣
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This week it kind of hit me that I almost forgot the mission. The mission for independence and freedom to be the person I want to be. I was sitting at my desk at work worried and thinking that I was not going to get the promotion that I applied for. And for a minute I was no longer in control.⁣
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I was at the mercy of others. Needless to say, it did not feel good. And the reason is simple. I forgot the mission. Sometimes we are going to forget the mission.⁣
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But if we have a clear vision of the mission it is easier to remember. Therefore, the trick to always stay true to yourself is vision. Vision matters more than you think. — 12 3

I almost forgot the mission....

𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐝𝐚𝐲 𝐈 𝐝𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐢𝐛𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐦𝐲 𝐋𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐦𝐲 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐦𝐬. ⁣
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This journey is full of bumps in the road, mountains that I have to climb, and rivers that I have to cross. But the one thing I realize about my Life. The day I decided to take responsibility for my Life and my problems was the day I started to live.⁣
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#embracingnelle#theblackgirljourney#theblackgirljourneypodcas t — 8 1

𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐝𝐚𝐲 𝐈 𝐝𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐨...

𝐅𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐟𝐞𝐚𝐫. ⁣
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Do you ever get tired of being afraid? I do all the time. One of the things I have had to fight through this journey is fear. I mean fear of everything. ⁣
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The fear of failure, the fear of being stuck, even the fear of facing myself. I mean when does it ever ends?⁣
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Honestly, I don’t think it does. So you and I are on the same boat. One way I fight through the fear is through thought stopping. When the thought arose in my head that means to cause me to fear I confront it and say “stop no. I do not want to think about this.”⁣
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Then I replace it with something else like a mental picture of my dogs or something beautiful. Allowing me time to formulate a new thought. Because y\'all this fear thing is strong. But the work can be done. How do you battle fear?⁣
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#theblackgirljourney#theblackgirljourneypodcast#loveyourself #selfloveisbestlove#selflovematters #selflovetips#feelspecial#findyourself #selfworth#selfcaretips #strongertogether#selfcaretips #lifecoach#personaldevelopment#selfesteem #selfhelp#nourishyoursol #selfcareroutine#dailycalm #selfcarecoach#selflovematters #yourareenough#gratitudejournal #selfgrowth#selfawareness #gogetit#mindsetiseverything#selfconfidence #dailymotivation #personalgrowth — 10 3

𝐅𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐟𝐞𝐚𝐫. ⁣...

𝐈’𝐦 𝐂𝐨𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐎𝐮𝐭🙌🏾⁣
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So a good friend asked me if I would ever come out. And as we had the conversation I was reluctant to do so. But Life is taking a whole new turn and so I think it’s time to share with y’all my big secret and just come out.⁣
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𝙄 𝙃𝘼𝙑𝙀 𝘼𝙉𝙓𝙄𝙀𝙏𝙔!!!⁣
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There I said it. Like millions, I suffer from anxiety. At times I would have bad panic attacks and anxious moments that would leave me in a deep hole.⁣
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But I have worked hard and am still working to overcome this part of me. It is not easy but every day it gets a little better. Somedays I am overwhelmed and ready to give up. But the good days are worth the fight. And I no longer need to keep it a secret. Because I am not ashamed. My mental health matters and #blackmentalhealth matters.⁣
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#floridablogger #embracingnelle #theblackgirljourneypodcast #anxiety #blackmentalhealthmatters # — 17 6

𝐈’𝐦 𝐂𝐨𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐎𝐮𝐭🙌🏾⁣ ⁣ So...

𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐣𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐞𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐧𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐥𝐲 𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫.⁣
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Some days I wake up exhausted. Wanting to be the person that I am trying to be already. I get tired of fighting my negative thoughts, unwanted emotions, and saying affirmations. ⁣
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Those are the mornings where it is even more important for me to wake up and remind myself that the journey of becoming the best me is never truly over. ⁣
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That’s when I remind myself to celebrate the small things. So today I want to celebrate me recognizing that I am worthy of this journey. I am worthy of so much. And little by little I realize that. It’s a little victory but it’s one that deserves to be celebrated. If you are on your journey don’t forget to celebrate the little things. — 7 1

𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐣𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐧𝐞𝐲 𝐢𝐬 𝐧𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐥𝐲...

𝐖𝐡𝐨 𝐝𝐞𝐟𝐢𝐧𝐞𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮❓ ⁣
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For a long time, I have allowed others to define me. But the problem with that is their definition of who I am is mixed with their trauma, childhood pain, and hurt from either their culture or past. ⁣
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So why was I allowing hurt people to define who I was? It took me a while but I am finally able to define myself. And honestly, I like the person I am becoming.⁣
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I am loving, caring, gentle, fun, outgoing and so much more. ⁣
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What about you? Are you defining yourself or allowing others to do it for you? Remember those who you allow to define you are doing it from a place that you are trying to get out of. — 17 3

𝐖𝐡𝐨 𝐝𝐞𝐟𝐢𝐧𝐞𝐬 𝐲𝐨𝐮❓ ⁣ ⁣...

𝐈 𝐀𝐦 𝐏𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐝 𝐨𝐟 𝐌𝐲𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐍𝐨 𝐌𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫 𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭. 🤩🎉⁣
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For the last couple of months, I have worked really hard. I studied and gave it all I had. And I have passed my exam for my license. ⁣
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Of course, I used that energy to embark on accomplishing other goals that I have set for myself. And the thought came to mind: \" No matter what. I am proud of myself and who I am becoming.\"⁣
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That is the reason for my journey. What about you?⁣
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#browngirlswhoblog #consistenttribe #browngirlbloggers #blkcreatives #blackselflovematters#blackwomenselfcare#loveyourselfmore#blackwomenempowerment#blackhealing #blackgirlempowerment#blackgirlinspiration#blackfemaleempowerment#blackwomenhealing #blackgirlhealing #embracingnelle #theblackgirljourney # — 10 3

𝐈 𝐀𝐦 𝐏𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐝 𝐨𝐟 𝐌𝐲𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟...

𝐘𝐨𝐮\'𝐫𝐞 𝐍𝐨𝐭 𝐎𝐤𝐚𝐲 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐖𝐚𝐲 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐀𝐫𝐞? 🧐⁣
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The worst thing you can tell a person is that they are okay the way they are. And in actuality, that person is miserable begging for a change and don’t know how to do. ⁣
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That’s how I started my journey. The journey to discovering who I am and how to be a better version of myself because I was not okay the way I was. ⁣
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I was suffering, deep in depression, and destroyed by anxiety. I was aimless and had no direction in my life. I didn’t know that I needed goals to succeed and live a life met living. ⁣
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That is why I am telling you what I wish they told me. 𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙣𝙤𝙩 𝙤𝙠𝙖𝙮 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙬𝙖𝙮 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙖𝙧𝙚. But you can change and be better. The choice is yours.⁣
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You can listen to the lie that said that you are who you are or you can work hard at becoming the person you want to be and always dreamed of being.🤩 — 7 1

𝐘𝐨𝐮\'𝐫𝐞 𝐍𝐨𝐭 𝐎𝐤𝐚𝐲 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐖𝐚𝐲...

𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐝𝐚𝐲 𝐈 𝐝𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐢𝐛𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐦𝐲 𝐋𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐦𝐲 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐦𝐬.✨⁣
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This journey is full of bumps on the road, mountains that I have to climb, and rivers that I have to cross.⁣
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But the one thing I realize about my Life.⁣
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𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗱𝗮𝘆 𝗜 𝗱𝗲𝗰𝗶𝗱𝗲𝗱 𝘁𝗼 𝘁𝗮𝗸𝗲 𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗽𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗶𝗯𝗶𝗹𝗶𝘁𝘆 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗺𝘆 𝗟𝗶𝗳𝗲 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝗺𝘆 𝗽𝗿𝗼𝗯𝗹𝗲𝗺𝘀 𝘄𝗮𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗱𝗮𝘆 𝗜 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗿𝘁𝗲𝗱 𝘁𝗼 𝗹𝗶𝘃𝗲. 💯⁣
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Are you living? Remember you only have one life. 🤓 — 10 3

𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐝𝐚𝐲 𝐈 𝐝𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐨...

𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐜𝐚𝐧’𝐭 𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐰 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐬𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐮𝐠𝐠𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮. ⁣
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Recently I started getting into plants. And I realize something pretty awesome about plants. They grow together or alone. But they never grow with other plants that are struggling to grow.⁣
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T𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐚𝐦𝐞 𝐠𝐨𝐞𝐬 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐮𝐬.⁣
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We can’t better ourselves hanging around with those who choose to stay the same. They will hinder our growth because they are not ready to do better. ⁣
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But you are. So how do you grow? Are you ready to leave them behind? Because this journey is taken alone or with those who are willing to take it.⁣
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#personaldevelopment #consistenttribe #theblackgirljourney # — 13 3

𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐜𝐚𝐧’𝐭 𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐰 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐨𝐬𝐞...

Sometimes you don’t need ah expert. ⁣
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On this journey of self-love and discovery, I learn many lessons about Life. One is that I don’t always need an expert to solve my problems. I can do it myself. All I have to do is search out the resources I need. It’s not always easy but it’s the process of becoming who I want to be.⁣
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#successquotes #personaldevelopment #gogetit #gogetter #millenials #learnfromthebest #motivationalquote #gottastayfocused #consistenttribe #motivationquote #lifecoach # — 9 1

Sometimes you don’t need ah...

I Can Figure It Out. I Have The Answers❓🤷🏾‍♀️⁣
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One of the first things I learned on this journey of self-love and discovery is that I can solve my problems on my own. I might need to hear some advice, make a list, and sometimes talk it out. ⁣
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But in the end, I can figure things out on my own. I am learning to trust myself and the process. The secret is learning to be resourceful. ⁣
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Are you resourceful? — 11 1

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